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Advice for property, parenting and financial preparation before you separate.

Advice for property, parenting and financial preparation before you separate.

Advice for property, parenting and financial preparation before you separate.

Recognised and trusted by:
Recognised and trusted by:

Some people wait too long to call a lawyer. Don't be one of them.

What you do before you leave a relationship can change everything that comes after. The documents you secure, the conversations you have, and the financial decisions you make or don't make in the weeks and months before separation can significantly affect your property settlement, your parenting arrangements, and your safety.


At Locke Family Law, we advise clients before they act.

Some people wait too long to call a lawyer. Don't be one of them.

What you do before you leave a relationship can change everything that comes after. The documents you secure, the conversations you have, and the financial decisions you make or don't make in the weeks and months before separation can significantly affect your property settlement, your parenting arrangements, and your safety.


At Locke Family Law, we advise clients before they act.

Our practice areas

We can help with:

We can help with:

Pre-separation legal advice.

We advise on your rights and entitlements before separation to protect your position.

Understanding your property entitlements before separation

We help you understand the asset pool and what fair division looks like.

Advice on parenting arrangements before separation.

We advise on likely parenting arrangements before any formal arrangements are made.

Guidance on what to document and what not to say.

We advise on what to gather, avoid and keep confidential before you act.

Financial preparation before separation.

We help you understand what financial conversations to have, and when.

Safety planning before leaving a controlling relationship.

For controlling relationships, we combine legal preparation with careful safety planning.

Some people wait too long to call a lawyer. Don't be one of them.

What you do before you leave a relationship can change everything that comes after. The documents you secure, the conversations you have, and the financial decisions you make or don't make in the weeks and months before separation can significantly affect your property settlement, your parenting arrangements, and your safety.


At Locke Family Law, we advise clients before they act.

WHY EARLY PRE-SEPARATION ADVICE MATTERS

What most people don't know before they separate.

Most people assume a family lawyer is only relevant after things have already fallen apart. By the time they call, decisions have already been made that affect their legal position, sometimes significantly.

01

What you do before you separate matters legally.

The steps you take before separation, including which assets you document, what financial information you gather, and which agreements you make or avoid, can directly impact your property settlement. Getting pre-separation advice before you act means getting advice while you still have options available to you.

02

Safety and legal preparation go hand in hand.

For clients in controlling or abusive relationships, the period before leaving is often the most dangerous. Legal preparation and safety planning need to happen together. We understand both dimensions and can help you navigate them.

03

Speaking to a mortgage broker before you leave can significantly affect your financial position after separation.

Many clients don't realise that their ability to access finance, refinance a property, or secure their financial future can be significantly affected by decisions made before separation. We will tell you which conversations to have and when to have them, before you take a step.

who this is for

Pre-separation advice may be right for you if:

You are considering leaving a relationship…

and want to understand your legal position before you make any decisions.

You are in a controlling or abusive relationship…

and need to plan your exit carefully, with both your safety and your legal position in mind.

You have significant assets, property, or complex finances…

and want to understand how separation will affect them before you act.

You want to know what to document, what financial information to gather…

and what conversations to avoid before you separate.

You are not ready to leave yet, but want to understand your options…

so you are prepared when the time comes.

Someone close to you is considering leaving a relationship…

and you want to help them get the right advice before they act.

Meet your lawyer.

Whatever brings you here, the goal is the same: a clear picture of your family law matter and an honest plan for what comes next.

Experience

15+ years in family law courts

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Meet your lawyer.

Whatever brings you here, the goal is the same: a clear picture of your family law matter and an honest plan for what comes next.

Experience

15+ years in family law courts

Published in

Proctor
Meet your lawyer.

Whatever brings you here, the goal is the same: a clear picture of your family law matter and an honest plan for what comes next.

Experience

15+ years in family law courts

Published in

Proctor
How we work on pre-separation advice

01

Advising you on what to do before you take action.

The first strategy session with Locke Family Law is about understanding your situation and giving you a clear picture of your current legal position, including what it could look like after separation and what steps you can take in the interim to protect yourself.

02

Understanding the safety dimension.

For clients in controlling or abusive relationships, pre-separation advice is about planning an exit that protects your safety, your children, and your financial position, as much as understanding your legal position. Our team have spent years working on legal matters pertaining to high-conflict, domestic violence, coercive control, and complex financial matters, and we know how to navigate them.

03

Helping you connect the legal and the financial parts.

Property settlements, superannuation, access to finance and mortgage arrangements; the financial decisions made before separation can affect everything that comes after. We will help you understand what conversations may be worth having with your mortgage broker, your financial adviser and your bank, and when to have them.

04

Every strategic decision sits directly with our principal.

Natalie Locke handles the thinking, strategy, and client relationship on every pre-separation matter we take on.

01

Advising you on what to do before you take action.

The first strategy session with Locke Family Law is about understanding your situation and giving you a clear picture of your current legal position, including what it could look like after separation and what steps you can take in the interim to protect yourself.

02

Understanding the safety dimension.

For clients in controlling or abusive relationships, pre-separation advice is about planning an exit that protects your safety, your children, and your financial position, as much as understanding your legal position. Our team have spent years working on legal matters pertaining to high-conflict, domestic violence, coercive control, and complex financial matters, and we know how to navigate them.

03

Helping you connect the legal and the financial parts.

Property settlements, superannuation, access to finance and mortgage arrangements; the financial decisions made before separation can affect everything that comes after. We will help you understand what conversations may be worth having with your mortgage broker, your financial adviser and your bank, and when to have them.

04

Every strategic decision sits directly with our principal.

Natalie Locke handles the thinking, strategy, and client relationship on every pre-separation matter we take on.

CLIENT TESTIMONIALS

In their words

All testimonials are anonymised to protect client privacy.

  • "I’ve been so lucky to have your help and guidance over the last 12 months with our family court matters. You have gone above and beyond for our family, and I cannot thank you enough for that. For the first time in years, I feel a sense of freedom to raise my family comfortably, happily, and in a safe environment. You don’t realise how much these changes affect a family—how they allow someone to feel free from manipulation and control. For the first time in a long time, I can make my own decisions and live a life with my kids without it being dictated by someone else or feeling like we’re constantly being watched. You have played a big part in this freedom and helped me become a stronger Mum for it. You change families' lives for the better, and you should be so incredibly proud of the job you do."

  • “Dear Natalie, I am just writing to say thank you again for your support in the last couple of years. The other party signed the consent order for property settlement, and the house will be transferred under my name soon. If I didn’t meet you for your advice session 3 years ago, this could not happen. Thank you for guiding me through all the way to here. Regarding parenting, [omitted for privacy]. These are more than I could wish for. You were the only person who advised me these could be possible. I really appreciate all your advice. Thank you again for all your compassion and support.”

CLIENT TESTIMONIALS

In their words

All testimonials are anonymised to protect client privacy.

  • "I’ve been so lucky to have your help and guidance over the last 12 months with our family court matters. You have gone above and beyond for our family, and I cannot thank you enough for that. For the first time in years, I feel a sense of freedom to raise my family comfortably, happily, and in a safe environment. You don’t realise how much these changes affect a family—how they allow someone to feel free from manipulation and control. For the first time in a long time, I can make my own decisions and live a life with my kids without it being dictated by someone else or feeling like we’re constantly being watched. You have played a big part in this freedom and helped me become a stronger Mum for it. You change families' lives for the better, and you should be so incredibly proud of the job you do."

  • “Dear Natalie, I am just writing to say thank you again for your support in the last couple of years. The other party signed the consent order for property settlement, and the house will be transferred under my name soon. If I didn’t meet you for your advice session 3 years ago, this could not happen. Thank you for guiding me through all the way to here. Regarding parenting, [omitted for privacy]. These are more than I could wish for. You were the only person who advised me these could be possible. I really appreciate all your advice. Thank you again for all your compassion and support.”

CLIENT TESTIMONIALS

In their words

All testimonials are anonymised to protect client privacy.

  • "I’ve been so lucky to have your help and guidance over the last 12 months with our family court matters. You have gone above and beyond for our family, and I cannot thank you enough for that. For the first time in years, I feel a sense of freedom to raise my family comfortably, happily, and in a safe environment. You don’t realise how much these changes affect a family—how they allow someone to feel free from manipulation and control. For the first time in a long time, I can make my own decisions and live a life with my kids without it being dictated by someone else or feeling like we’re constantly being watched. You have played a big part in this freedom and helped me become a stronger Mum for it. You change families' lives for the better, and you should be so incredibly proud of the job you do."

  • “Dear Natalie, I am just writing to say thank you again for your support in the last couple of years. The other party signed the consent order for property settlement, and the house will be transferred under my name soon. If I didn’t meet you for your advice session 3 years ago, this could not happen. Thank you for guiding me through all the way to here. Regarding parenting, [omitted for privacy]. These are more than I could wish for. You were the only person who advised me these could be possible. I really appreciate all your advice. Thank you again for all your compassion and support.”

For clients referred by domestic violence services

Our values-driven commitment reflects Natalie's longstanding relationship with the DV service community and her history with Women's Legal Service Queensland. Please mention this when you get in touch.

FAQs

Answers to your pre-separation advice questions.

We know that the period before separation can feel uncertain and overwhelming, particularly when safety, finances and parenting arrangements are all in play at once. We have compiled answers to the questions that come up most often from clients who are considering leaving a relationship or planning their next move. If you can't find your answer here, get in touch directly.

I’m considering leaving my partner. When should I speak to a family lawyer?

As early as possible. Many people wait until after they have left before seeking legal advice. However, the decisions made before separation can significantly affect your property settlement, parenting arrangements, and financial position. Speaking to a family lawyer before you act means understanding your options while you still have options available to you.

What should I do before I leave a relationship?

Can I get legal advice before separating if I am still living with my partner?

How does pre-separation advice help with a property settlement?

What is the difference between pre-separation advice and a property settlement?

If your legal matter doesn’t end here

High-conflict divorce, coercive control, and domestic violence family law

Legal advice and representation for high-conflict divorce, domestic violence, coercive control, and custody disputes.

High-conflict divorce, coercive control, and domestic violence family law

Legal advice and representation for high-conflict divorce, domestic violence, coercive control, and custody disputes.

High-conflict divorce, coercive control, and domestic violence family law

Legal advice and representation for high-conflict divorce, domestic violence, coercive control, and custody disputes.

Complex property settlements

High-value divorce and de facto settlements, business interests, trusts and complex asset structures.

Complex property settlements

High-value divorce and de facto settlements, business interests, trusts and complex asset structures.

Complex property settlements

High-value divorce and de facto settlements, business interests, trusts and complex asset structures.

At Locke Family Law, we call it a strategy session

If you are not sure what comes next, we can figure it out together.

If you are not sure what comes next, we can figure it out together.

If you are not sure what comes next, we can figure it out together.

The word ‘strategy’ is intentional because you don't leave with a brochure and a follow-up email. You leave with a real picture of your situation, an honest assessment of what it will take to reach a resolution, and a specific plan for how to get there. 


Book your $495 strategy session with our Principal, Natalie Locke, at Locke Family Law today.

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blogs & Resources

For anyone who needs to understand what they are dealing with before they act.

The Federal Circuit and Family Court delivered an important parenting decision in Jefferson & Hooper (No 2).

International travel disputes are some of the most common and emotionally charged issues in parenting matters.

Online sexual violence regulation in Australia is failing to keep pace with the scale and seriousness of digital harm.

blogs & Resources

For anyone who needs to understand what they are dealing with before they act.

The Federal Circuit and Family Court delivered an important parenting decision in Jefferson & Hooper (No 2).

International travel disputes are some of the most common and emotionally charged issues in parenting matters.

Online sexual violence regulation in Australia is failing to keep pace with the scale and seriousness of digital harm.

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